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1923: Young Vladimir Nabokov Meets the Love of His Life and Wins
Her Over with a Poem by Maria Popova
1923: Young Vladimir Nabokov Meets the Love of His Life and Wins
Her Over with a Poem by Maria Popova
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http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/05/08/vladimir-nabokov-meets-vera/
May 8, 1923: Young Vladimir Nabokov Meets the Love of His Life and Wins Her
Over with a Poem
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/05/08/vladimir-nabokov-meets-vera/>*by Maria
Popova <http://www.brainpickings.org/author/mpopova/>*
*“Longing, and mystery, and delight…”*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20>On May 8,
1923, a young woman appeared before a young man — an emerging poet — at an
émigré charity ball in Berlin. Wearing a black Harlequin demi-mask she
refused to lower, she proceeded to produce a verse from one of his poems,
which she had clipped from the Russian liberal daily *Rul’* some months
earlier and committed to memory.
He was instantly besotted.
The woman was 21-year-old Véra Slonim and the man 24-year-old Vladimir
Nabokov, and with this Shakespearean encounter began one of history’s
greatest romances.
Nabokov had just emerged from the heartbreak of his first great love and
was still raw with grief over his father’s death. The encounter with Véra
sliced through the thick of this darkness with a luminous beam of
possibility — for love, for happiness, for vibrant aliveness. So taken was
the young writer with the glimpse of this possibility that he immortalized
that fateful moment in a beautiful poem titled “The Encounter,” included in
the altogether enchanting*Letters to Véra*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20> (*public
library*
<http://www.worldcat.org/title/letters-to-vera/oclc/876285295&referer=brief_results>)
— one of the best biographies of 2014
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/15/best-biographies-memoirs-history-books-2014/>,
which gave us Nabokov’s affectionate bestiary of nicknames for Véra
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/03/letters-to-vera-vladimir-nabokov/>,
his clever puzzles and word games for her
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/04/16/a-questionnaire-for-the-immodest-and-curious-nabokov-letters-to-vera/>,
and literature’s most entertaining account of food poisoning
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/01/08/vladimir-nabokov-letters-to-vera-food-poisoning/>
.
Nabokov mailed the poem to *Rul,’* where it was published on June 24.
Catalyzing their lifetime of passionate love letters
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/03/letters-to-vera-vladimir-nabokov/> was
this most exquisite private serenade performed behind the demi-mask of a
public text, translated here by Olga Voronina.
THE ENCOUNTER
*enchanted by this strange proximity*
Longing, and mystery, and delight…
as if from the swaying blackness
of some slow-motion masquerade
onto the dim bridge you came.
And night flowed, and silent there floated
into its satin streams
that black mask’s wolf-like profile
and those tender lips of yours.
And under the chestnuts, along the canal
you passed, luring me askance.
What did my heart discern in you,
how did you move me so?
In your momentary tenderness,
or in the changing contour of your shoulders,
did I experience a dim sketch
of other — irrevocable — encounters?
Perhaps romantic pity
led you to understand
what had set trembling that arrow
now piercing through my verse?
I know nothing. Strangely
the verse vibrates, and in it, an arrow…
Perhaps you, still nameless, were
the genuine, the awaited one?
But sorrow not yet quite cried out
perturbed our starry hour.
Into the night returned the double fissure
of your eyes, eyes not yet illumed.
For long? For ever? Far off
I wander, and strain to hear
the movement of the stars above our encounter
and what if you are to be my fate…
Longing, and mystery, and delight,
and like a distant supplication….
My heart must travel on.
But if you are to be my fate…
His fate she did become — they were married twenty months later and
remained together for half a century, until death did them part. So
complete was their union that Véra became Vladimir’s *de facto* editor,
assistant, administrator, agent, archivist, chauffeur, researcher,
stenographer in four languages, and even his bodyguard, famously carrying a
small pistol in her purse
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/10/22/who-what-when-rothman-book/> to
protect her husband from assassination after he became America’s most
famous and most scandalous
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/09/24/lolitigation-nabokov-censorship/>
living
author.
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20>
*Véra and Vladimir Nabokov, Montreaux, 1968 (Photograph: Philippe Halsman)*
*Letters to Véra*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20> is a
breathtakingly beautiful in its totality. Complement it with other
exhilarating first encounters that sparked some of creative culture’s
greatest loves: Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/05/22/diego-rivera-frida-kahlo-meeting/>
, Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas
<http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/04/30/alice-b-toklas-meets-gertrude-stein/>
,Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes
<http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/02/25/sylvia-plath-meets-ted-hughes/>,
and Zelda and F. Scott Fitzgerald
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/04/03/zelda-scott-fitzgerald-marriage-letter/>
.
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May 8, 1923: Young Vladimir Nabokov Meets the Love of His Life and Wins Her
Over with a Poem
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/05/08/vladimir-nabokov-meets-vera/>*by Maria
Popova <http://www.brainpickings.org/author/mpopova/>*
*“Longing, and mystery, and delight…”*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20>On May 8,
1923, a young woman appeared before a young man — an emerging poet — at an
émigré charity ball in Berlin. Wearing a black Harlequin demi-mask she
refused to lower, she proceeded to produce a verse from one of his poems,
which she had clipped from the Russian liberal daily *Rul’* some months
earlier and committed to memory.
He was instantly besotted.
The woman was 21-year-old Véra Slonim and the man 24-year-old Vladimir
Nabokov, and with this Shakespearean encounter began one of history’s
greatest romances.
Nabokov had just emerged from the heartbreak of his first great love and
was still raw with grief over his father’s death. The encounter with Véra
sliced through the thick of this darkness with a luminous beam of
possibility — for love, for happiness, for vibrant aliveness. So taken was
the young writer with the glimpse of this possibility that he immortalized
that fateful moment in a beautiful poem titled “The Encounter,” included in
the altogether enchanting*Letters to Véra*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20> (*public
library*
<http://www.worldcat.org/title/letters-to-vera/oclc/876285295&referer=brief_results>)
— one of the best biographies of 2014
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/15/best-biographies-memoirs-history-books-2014/>,
which gave us Nabokov’s affectionate bestiary of nicknames for Véra
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/03/letters-to-vera-vladimir-nabokov/>,
his clever puzzles and word games for her
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/04/16/a-questionnaire-for-the-immodest-and-curious-nabokov-letters-to-vera/>,
and literature’s most entertaining account of food poisoning
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2015/01/08/vladimir-nabokov-letters-to-vera-food-poisoning/>
.
Nabokov mailed the poem to *Rul,’* where it was published on June 24.
Catalyzing their lifetime of passionate love letters
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/12/03/letters-to-vera-vladimir-nabokov/> was
this most exquisite private serenade performed behind the demi-mask of a
public text, translated here by Olga Voronina.
THE ENCOUNTER
*enchanted by this strange proximity*
Longing, and mystery, and delight…
as if from the swaying blackness
of some slow-motion masquerade
onto the dim bridge you came.
And night flowed, and silent there floated
into its satin streams
that black mask’s wolf-like profile
and those tender lips of yours.
And under the chestnuts, along the canal
you passed, luring me askance.
What did my heart discern in you,
how did you move me so?
In your momentary tenderness,
or in the changing contour of your shoulders,
did I experience a dim sketch
of other — irrevocable — encounters?
Perhaps romantic pity
led you to understand
what had set trembling that arrow
now piercing through my verse?
I know nothing. Strangely
the verse vibrates, and in it, an arrow…
Perhaps you, still nameless, were
the genuine, the awaited one?
But sorrow not yet quite cried out
perturbed our starry hour.
Into the night returned the double fissure
of your eyes, eyes not yet illumed.
For long? For ever? Far off
I wander, and strain to hear
the movement of the stars above our encounter
and what if you are to be my fate…
Longing, and mystery, and delight,
and like a distant supplication….
My heart must travel on.
But if you are to be my fate…
His fate she did become — they were married twenty months later and
remained together for half a century, until death did them part. So
complete was their union that Véra became Vladimir’s *de facto* editor,
assistant, administrator, agent, archivist, chauffeur, researcher,
stenographer in four languages, and even his bodyguard, famously carrying a
small pistol in her purse
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/10/22/who-what-when-rothman-book/> to
protect her husband from assassination after he became America’s most
famous and most scandalous
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/09/24/lolitigation-nabokov-censorship/>
living
author.
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20>
*Véra and Vladimir Nabokov, Montreaux, 1968 (Photograph: Philippe Halsman)*
*Letters to Véra*
<http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0141192232/braipick-20> is a
breathtakingly beautiful in its totality. Complement it with other
exhilarating first encounters that sparked some of creative culture’s
greatest loves: Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/05/22/diego-rivera-frida-kahlo-meeting/>
, Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas
<http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/04/30/alice-b-toklas-meets-gertrude-stein/>
,Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes
<http://www.brainpickings.org/index.php/2013/02/25/sylvia-plath-meets-ted-hughes/>,
and Zelda and F. Scott Fitzgerald
<http://www.brainpickings.org/2014/04/03/zelda-scott-fitzgerald-marriage-letter/>
.
Search archive with Google:
http://www.google.com/advanced_search?q=site:listserv.ucsb.edu&HL=en
Contact the Editors: mailto:nabokv-l@utk.edu,nabokv-l@holycross.edu
Zembla: http://www.libraries.psu.edu/nabokov/zembla.htm
Nabokv-L policies: http://web.utk.edu/~sblackwe/EDNote.htm
Nabokov Online Journal:" http://www.nabokovonline.com
AdaOnline: "http://www.ada.auckland.ac.nz/
The Nabokov Society of Japan's Annotations to Ada: http://vnjapan.org/main/ada/index.html
The VN Bibliography Blog: http://vnbiblio.com/
Search the archive with L-Soft: https://listserv.ucsb.edu/lsv-cgi-bin/wa?A0=NABOKV-L
Manage subscription options :http://listserv.ucsb.edu/lsv-cgi-bin/wa?SUBED1=NABOKV-L